Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps

Ever wonder why women can brush their teeth while walking and talking on various subjects while men generally find this very difficult to do? Why 99 percent of all patents are registered by men? Why stressed women talk? Why so many husbands hate shopping? According to Barbara and Allan Pease, science now confirms that “the way our brains are wired and the hormones pulsing through our bodies are the two factors that largely dictate, long before we are born, how we will think and behave. Our instincts are simply our genes determining how our bodies will behave in given sets of circumstances.” That’s right: socialization, politics, or upbringing aside, men and women have profound brain differences and are intrinsically inclined to act in distinct–and consequently frustrating–ways. The premises behind Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps is that all too often, these differences get in the way of fulfilling relationships and that understanding our basic urges can lead to greater self-awareness and improved relations between the sexes. The Peases spent three years researching their book–traveling the globe, talking to experts, and studying the cutting-edge research of ethnologists, psychologists, biologists, and neuroscientists–yet their work does not read a bit like “hard science.” In fact, the authors go to considerable lengths to point out that their book is intended to be funny, interesting, and easy to read; in short, this is a book whose primary purpose is to talk about “average men and women, that is, how most men and women behave most of the time, in most situations, and for most of the past.” Why Men Don’t Listen, therefore, deals largely in generalizations, and this is bound to alienate some readers. “We don’t beat around the bush with suppositions or politically correct clichés,” the Peases claim. Those up for an irreverent and unapologetic take on why men and women just can’t help themselves sometimes may just decide to read on. –Svenja Soldovieri

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How to Read Body Language

How do you know if your blind date thinks you’re cute? Simple, read their silent language. According to Philip Redhead of Empower Solutions, 55 percent of meaning during a conversation comes from our body language. But be warned! Body language can easily be misconstrued by even the most accomplished expert. What follows is a basic guide for this universal language.

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How to Read a Person Like a Book

From Barnes & Noble The body never lies. A tilt of the head, a crossing (or uncrossing) of the legs, even the buttoning or unbuttoning of a jacket, can speak volumes about what a person is thinking or feeling. This illustrated guide teaches us how to spot the hidden messages that we send to each other with our bodies. These messages may be emotional, sexual, or social, positive or negative. They may be between members of the opposite sex, or members of the same sex — whether friend, foe, or total stranger. Learning how to decipher the meaning of this unspoken vocabulary and controlling your response can radically influence the outcome of almost any situation. From the Publisher Decipher the unspoken vocabulary of body language. A tilt of the head, the crossing of legs, the buttoning and unbuttoning of a jacket, and other gestures can speak volumes about what a person is thinking or feeling. By learning to spot hidden emotional, social, and sexual messages, you can tell how a person is reacting to you, respond appropriately, and influence the outcome of any situation. Detect and send messages of friendliness and flirtation. Gain and maintain the upper hand in negotiations and arguments. Determine whether someone is lying, recognize boredom, and overcome defensiveness. By interpreting nonverbal behavior, you can improve your control over job interviews, business meetings, parties, chance encounters, and other everyday situations

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Body Language – How to read others’ thoughts by their gestures

Allan Pease: “As a young boy, I was always aware that what people said was not always what they meant or were feeling and that it was…”

Everybody knows someone who can walk into a room full of people and, within minutes, give an accurate description about the relationships and feelings those people are experiencing. This ability to read a person’s attitudes and thoughts by their behaviour was the original communication system used by humans before spoken language evolved.

The original book was intended as a working manual for sales people, managers, negotiators and executives and has sold 5 million copies worldwide. The Definitive Book of Body Language is the result of over 30 years of involvement in this field and has been expanded in such a way that any person, regardless of his or her vocation or position in life, can use it to obtain a better understanding of life’s most complex event – a face-to-face encounter with another person.

About the Author: Allan Pease is the worlds foremost expert on body language and relationships. His acclaimed book Body Language has sold over 4 million copies, while his top rated TV series on the same subject has been seen by over 100 million people worldwide. He travels the world lecturing on human communication.

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Allan Pease “Definitive Book of Body Language”

This international bestseller reveals the secrets of nonverbal communication to give you confidence and control in any face-to-face encounter from making a great first impression and acing a job interview to finding the right partner.
It is a scientific fact that people’s gestures give away their true intentions. Yet most of us don’t know how to read body language and don’t realize how our own physical movements speak to others. Now the world’s foremost experts on the subject share their techniques for reading body language signals to achieve success in every area of life.
Drawing upon more than thirty years in the field, as well as cutting-edge research from evolutionary biology, psychology, and medical technologies that demonstrate what happens in the brain, the authors examine each component of body language and give you the basic vocabulary to read attitudes and emotions through behavior.

Discover:

How palms and handshakes are used to gain control
The most common gestures of liars
How the legs reveal what the mind wants to do
The most common male and female courtship gestures and signals
The secret signals of cigarettes, glasses, and makeup
The magic of smiles–including smiling advice for women
How to use nonverbal cues and signals to communicate more effectively and get the reactions you want
Filled with fascinating insights, humorous observations, and simple strategies that you can apply to any situation, this intriguing book will enrich your communication with and understanding of others–as well as yourself.
Every person’s body language very often reveals that what they say is different from what they think or feel. It is a scientific fact that people’s gestures give away their true intentions.
Everyday we are confronted by hundreds of different signals that can mean anything from “That’s a great idea” to “You must be kidding”. And we are all sending out these signals whether we realise it or not.

This Book Shows:

How to make a positive impression on others
How to interview and negotiate successfully
How to bond quickly and get others to co-operate
How to tell if someone is lying
How to read between the lines of what is said
How to use body language to get what you want
How to recognize love-signs and power-plays
Body Language adds a new dimension to human communication. It is a must for anybody whose business or personal life involves face-to-face interaction with other people.

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